Thursday, August 27, 2009

Memories with you!!

Dear Son,

Every year this date i miss you... Its been seven year now.. but i am not able to forget you.. As the time passes i am feeling more attached with you..

I dont know why you are not here with me on this special day of yours, i know that you are back to me in another form. But still i miss you..

I think if you would have been alive today, how would you look like today. how would you talk today..... we would have fun together.. God has given the ability to a woman to give a birth to a life but i think he forget to give the ability to forget their kids, if he is going to call them to him soon... Though he gave me you back, but still i miss you and on this day when i gave birth to you.. i cry for you... my heart is crying for you..

The happiness you gave me , your smile, your little hands ... are still fresh in my memory..

Happy Birthday Son!!

May you stay in peace!!

Love you
Your mom....

23 Comments:

Blogger AnjuGandhi said...

what a touching post
nothing in the world can compensate the loss of one's child
it is very difficult to come to terms with this loss and live with it
i admire the courage of the parents who live with this loss all through their life

9:16 PM  
Blogger Shas said...

Happy B'day to your son. He is forever alive in your memories.
Am sure he must be happy to see this post metaphorically.
I can relate to this post coz my mother still misses my bro though she hardly talks about him anymore.
It is difficult for a mother to forget her child.

12:21 PM  
Blogger Miss M said...

I read this post and didn't have the heart to leave a comment the first time.

I am so very very sorry for your loss! :( Happy birthday to your son.

10:21 PM  
Blogger Shas said...

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2:42 AM  
Anonymous sm said...

happy birthday to your son
very touching post
i am sure he is reading this post and comments also.

12:19 AM  
Blogger Tomz said...

touching..really touching one..

1:25 PM  
Blogger abhi said...

May the loss be compensated by the Al Mighty

5:15 PM  
Blogger A New Beginning said...

God has blessed you with a big heart, I am sure your son is , proud of his mom and would always comfort you through the passage of time, since he now resides in your heart.

8:52 AM  
Blogger Novice Writer said...

Very touching..

3:25 PM  
Blogger White Forest said...

Let the god give you the strength to recover!

9:04 AM  
Blogger kochuthresiamma p .j said...

what can one say to you? but you are a brave one - - -

8:22 PM  
Anonymous AS said...

may god bless your son. but what happened to him ?

8:27 AM  
Blogger cyclopseven said...

Life is a mystery...we don't understand many things. Memories are always intact and not easy to peel off. Strengthen the heart and pray for the best. It's not easy, never will. God Bless.

10:05 PM  
Blogger MADHU RAO | (INDImag.COM) said...

Words cannot do justice to the love and angst you have for your little boy. Happy Birthday to your son. He is alive and well in your heart.

1:38 AM  
Anonymous sm said...

Happy New year

1:34 AM  
Blogger mrinal said...

very sorry for u.Tears just roll as READ UR BLOG.HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO UR SON

4:16 AM  
Blogger Jagjit said...

Sorry to hear your misfortune. May he rest in peace. And ye, happy birthday to him.

7:40 PM  
Blogger Ji said...

Happy Birth day to your son!

9:44 PM  
Blogger R. Ramesh said...

omg.real touching..i have a dear swiss blog friend who had lost daugter..v talked about it..i know how it feels to lose a near one as i have just lost my dear brother..best wishes always with u friend..with good people all around the globe v should be able to draw comfort from one and all..

9:38 PM  
Blogger Dr.Antony said...

I understood what goes on in your mind.Having spent long months as an attendant to an ailing child,and finally lost her, I know how painful it is.

Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me.
Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere.
Very near.
Just around the corner.


Poem by Henry Scott Holland ~ 1847-1918

7:27 PM  
Blogger Dr.Antony said...

I understood what goes on in your mind.Having spent long months as an attendant to an ailing child,and finally lost her, I know how painful it is.

Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me.
Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere.
Very near.
Just around the corner.


Poem by Henry Scott Holland ~ 1847-1918

7:28 PM  
Blogger Swatantra said...

Thanks Dr. Antony for sharing this.. i loved it and has healed me more than i thought.

8:25 PM  
Blogger The unsure ascetic said...

hey, where are you.no posting lately??

12:50 AM  

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